Alright, maybe I'm suffering from some antiquated thought process but it seems to me that one parent at the very least should be home with the kids at all times, and even more so when they are only babies. I am not saying a "woman's place is in the home" or anything like that, but it is factual that Mommie is physically better equiped to care for baby, this is certain. This population is in a situation where in almost all cases both parents must work to make ends meet and it's the kids who suffer because of it. Not to mention those of you who are single parents who are forced to leave your little ones in a day-care with semi-strangers all day.
For someone like me, the idea of sending my new baby off to be tended to by strangers in a local day-care was completely appauling. This small, sweet little girl, this precious jewel of my life, and I was supposed to just give her to a group of strangers working over here at the local day-care facility? I don't think so!
It was not easy but her mother and I did create a situation where our baby did not have to be raised by anyone we didn't fully trust and so she got to be home with one of us at all times. In the course of meeting lots of other parents that the old-school idea of Mommy at home and Father off to work to bring home the bacon has really become a thing of the past for most. Not good. Particularly if you excited to have the government raising your kids. Perhaps if the majority of small children were being raised by their parents we wouldn't have all the social issues that we have. It could be that ADD and ADHD is simply a protest against the fact that the kid only has the attention of his parents for a few hours per day.
Many parents don't have a choice. If you are a single Mom I absolutely empathize with your situation. You have much work ahead of you. But like the lyric said, "I will survive!". You don't have much choice do you? It's not just your problem since you have that baby to be responsible for.
And if you have ever had the misfortune of attempting to find work so that you could be a work from home mom I'm sure you found for yourself that this is not easy to find. Countless hours searching and most of the time you won't find anything that fits your needs.
A couple issues.
First, the competition for these positions is very fierce, and secondly, they usually don't pay much.
When our little one came along my wife spent quite a bit of time searching the internet for Work From Home Moms-type work. Large numbers of hours wasted. And weeks passed and the positions just weren't there. The few times we did find something that looked like it had potential it was filled almost as quickly as the ad was published.
Something that many women who are looking for work at home moms-type work do not consider is just starting up their own business. Undoubtedly there can be a lot of stress and uncertainty due to the non-guaranteed income as well as lack of start-up captial. These may be valid issues but if you understand that the time you are investing in searching for the work at home job that you are probably never going to find you may realize that you are already working and not getting paid for your time. And, there are more small business opportunites than ever out there right now. Many of them can be started for almost nothing.
This may be a very viable direction to go for a lot of work from home moms, especially if an opportunity can be found which fits in with one's personality, and which one already has the skills for. Also, there are a lot of opportunities out there right now which will also provide training related to building the business. There are high-cost start-ups and there are those which you can start for just few dollars, even some for free. The idea here is to work with whatever budget you have, and not to stretch yourself so thin that you are too stressed to function and get the job done after you start.
I found network marketing to be a very workable option for work from home moms, even though I'm a work from home Dad. These days there are literally thousands of different network marketing opportunites to choose from, and with a bit of research, and knowing what to look for, one can find a company which suits their needs and wants. In choosing this optioin you really want to try and find a team or sponsor who has the ability and availability to assist you in getting started, not just in taking your money. Talk to them or spend some time reviewing any material they have available on their blog or other sites. You may be surprised how good a feel you can get for these people just by spending some time on their websites. And you may have to talk to a few of these guys before you are comfortable making a decision. The difference will be, unlike a "job", these people will actually want to work with you provided you are fairly bright and ambitious.
I always thought that this business was well suited to work from home moms because it's flexible, it's social and you can do it from home, even with a baby in your lap. I know. Because now my daughter is 3 and I have done more than my share of work with her in my lap or playing on the floor next to me. And even though it took a few months to get it up and running, I found that with the right instruction from someone who knows what they are doing you can build a little business like this up to a point where you can do it part-time from home and still have a full-time income. Now I do. Not that what I am doing would be perfect for you. Like I said, you want to do your research and find an opportunity and a sponsor that you can work well with, who is willing to help you, and who has the ability to provide what you need in the way of mentoring.
The rest is just getting to work and having a little motivation of your own.
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